About
This piece is the backstory behind this incarnation of this blog as a trans community resource.
I originally grabbed this Blogspot URL after some discussion on Hacker News. It was probably originally intended to be about global warming.
While the world turns was the name of a soap opera. If you are AMAB, in a heteronormative marriage and contemplating coming out, you likely think your life is a soap opera on steroids and your life is burning to the ground.
They say Nero fiddled while Rome burned, presumably unconcerned and perhaps entertained. Here's hoping some people can find the information they need and see things more light heartedly.
The sun will come out tomorrow. It will be a new day and you will be a new you.
Perhaps for some of you, your world won't burn down. And if it does, may you rise from the ashes like a phoenix.
Who am I?
I'm some chick who noticed a pattern of questions on Reddit suggesting to me that married AMAB individuals and their wives desperately need resources, felt I could provide a constructive perspective and started yet another blog.
Update 15 February 2026
This site is small but is aimed at filling an undeserved niche. A different site of mine says Legal Notice: It's okay to translate my work.
Earlier today, I wrote a piece that says roughly "Ally doesn't mean I'm your bitch."
There is a stupidly long history of people latching onto me and it going weird and problematic places. Please don't do that.
Writing is My Occupation.
Writing is my art.
If you value my work, please find appropriate ways to express that. "Nutcase stalker making my life miserable" isn't one of them, no.
I originally grabbed this Blogspot URL after some discussion on Hacker News. It was probably originally intended to be about global warming.
While the world turns was the name of a soap opera. If you are AMAB, in a heteronormative marriage and contemplating coming out, you likely think your life is a soap opera on steroids and your life is burning to the ground.
They say Nero fiddled while Rome burned, presumably unconcerned and perhaps entertained. Here's hoping some people can find the information they need and see things more light heartedly.
The sun will come out tomorrow. It will be a new day and you will be a new you.
Perhaps for some of you, your world won't burn down. And if it does, may you rise from the ashes like a phoenix.
Who am I?
I'm some chick who noticed a pattern of questions on Reddit suggesting to me that married AMAB individuals and their wives desperately need resources, felt I could provide a constructive perspective and started yet another blog.
Update 15 February 2026
This site is small but is aimed at filling an undeserved niche. A different site of mine says Legal Notice: It's okay to translate my work.
Earlier today, I wrote a piece that says roughly "Ally doesn't mean I'm your bitch."
There is a stupidly long history of people latching onto me and it going weird and problematic places. Please don't do that.
Writing is My Occupation.
Writing is my art.
If you value my work, please find appropriate ways to express that. "Nutcase stalker making my life miserable" isn't one of them, no.