Trined

I wrote a piece yesterday about how simply being married is a stabilizing influence that inherently makes it difficult to make big personal changes, such as a gender identity transition. I thought I would write one piece on the topic and it's just scratching the surface on what I want to say.

I briefly wrestled with how to title it, like "Part One sone something about marriage" and decided I would instead use a tag to tie these pieces together and didn't know how to tag it.

I prefer short tags, preferably one word in part because you can't leave spaces in a blogger label if you want it to work as a link. I slept on it and I've just woke up and I have the BRILLIANT idea to call it trined because:

Trines are traditionally seen as "good" aspects. It's more accurate to think of them as stable harmonics.

Keep in mind you can bring a bridge down with harmonics of that sort. If it matches up the right way, the motion amplifies until it crumbles.

I've seen superficially harmonious relationships full of trines that were stable, long term abusive relationships that the victim had trouble escaping.

That's from my site subtitled A Critique of Astrology. Where I say things likely to get me equal hatred from both people who believe in astrology and people who don't. 

BRILLIANT is sarcasm. I'm a weirdo. Nobody likes or respects me. Get off my lawn.

Anyway, heternormative culture supplies a zillion social influences where both husbands and wives and the people around them have a superficially harmonious relationship where everyone is on the same page about how to MAKE a heterosexual marriage WORK and GOD HELP YOU if either of you wishes your life was something better than THIS SHIT. 

It makes sense to ME and I have no audience.