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I have come to believe that some of the worst homophobes are homosexuals trying desperately to stay in the closet. That's from a piece explaining my father was part Native American and I believe he cracked racist jokes to signal to White people "I'm WHITE. 100 percent WHITE. (Please don't lynch me.)." I was born in 1965 when my father was forty years old. My understanding is the last recorded lynchings occurred the year I turned three.  I believe that principle generalizes. If you are an openly hateful shit stirring transphobic asshole -- like JK Rowling -- my personal opinion as someone recovered  from incest twice over is: You are very extremely loudly announcing to the world that you have a giant goddamned problem with your sexuality and/or gender identity and are too much of a spineless pile of manure to man up or woman up and deal with your shit. I have ZERO interest in engaging you. This is being written to serve as the pinned post for this site and if some...

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